Family Vacation and thinking about Him

Right now I'm visiting my moms side of the family they live close to Detroit Michigan which is close to Ann Arbor where the last person that I liked goes to school. Let me tell you it kind of fucking sucks when a place that you have been going almost every single year of your entire life is taken over by uncomfortable memories. I'll give him credit though because I know it was not him and that he is actually a really nice person, but the timing of when I met him and the other person was at the exact same minute. They were friends. They are both Chinese. And I had maybe liked them both at the same time for about eleven months. Than the friend might have done something that I was not really thrilled to hear about. My feelings for the friend ended that night and I thought I would be ok going on with my life. I wasn't. Every time I even looked at him I thought about the friend and how I wanted the person that I liked to just give up on that friendship. Problem was he was oblivious to what was going on and it certainly didn't help that he was the nicest guy on the face of the planet and extremely cute. I couldn't handle it. I actually had a dream that my sister and I were in a park both guys were there and the friend shot my sister after telling him that she knew. That was the end of everything. But I guess the problem is that my ex crush and I both are from the same town and we both go to the same places to eat. Is it really too much to ask that I really just want one place where I can get away from thinking about any of this. I'm over all of it. I really don't care if I ever run into him around town or in Ann Arbor, but at the same time I would prefer if I could just enjoy this vacation and not be thinking about him.and plus this is technically my territory as I did discover Ann Arbor like 17 years before him. All I truly want is a place that doesn't remind me of all of this.